作　者：Wendy Behary
出　版：New Harbinger Publications
书　号：1608827607
原　价：￥116.60元

亚马逊：￥97.10 元

-I!H(k*Mu6dHY,ey*C0DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED心理学空间 T_}M7lR
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定价： 14.95美元
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p b yB"{0What can you do with the narcissistic people in your life? They’re frustrating (and maybe even intimidating) to deal with. But sometimes you genuinely care for one of them. And you might need to interact with others in social or professional settings. Sometimes it doesn’t won’t work to simply ignore them. You need to find a way of communicating effectively with narcissists, getting your point across and meeting your needs while sidestepping unproductive power struggles and senseless arguments.This book offers several strategies for dealing effectively with someone who is at the centre of his or her own universe. Readers will learn how to move past the narcissist’s defences with compassionate, empathetic communication. They’ll learn to understand the worldview and coping styles of narcissists and why it’s often sad and lonely to be a narcissist. By anticipating and avoiding certain hot-button issues, readers will discover ways to relate to narcissists without triggering aggression. By validating some common narcissistic concerns, readers will find out how to be heard in conversation with a narcissist.
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Wendy Behary, LCSW, is founder and clinical director of the Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and a faculty member at the Cognitive Therapy Center and Schema Therapy Institute of New York. She is also a founding fellow of the Academy of Cognitive Therapy. She maintains a private practice, specializing in narcissism and couples therapy.心理学空间i1G_J3@{sv

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#|S }#{Al%y&T"nY0Contents　　内容

Foreword　　序言心理学空间'@(v F P1jH3k4R

Preface　　前言

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Introduction　　引言心理学空间S*d9wGh3T%r

-}|Ha&Jic/R{ X0　　An Era of Narcissism 　　自恋的时代

　　The Wisdom of Empathy 　　共情的智慧心理学空间*aS%q,`)mu

　　Indelible Imprints 　　不可磨灭的印记

jxQ}#b9H![7pb0　　Pivotal Influences　　关键的影响

　　Shared Wisdom　　共享智慧心理学空间5P-d@1WZ&b

1 Framing the Situation: Toward an Understanding of Narcissism 建构情境：对自恋的理解

　　The Narcissist at a Glance 一目了然的自恋者

V!L8Y ~vVJ%H.?0　　What Is a Narcissist? 什么是自恋？心理学空间8}R5]*T:I8?eku+s

B6z'h5h6^2`-@{0　　Origins of Narcissism 自恋的起源心理学空间 [-u G;b%j6qd7u

4D&KZ3M#S)uC1a7g0　　The Magician: Disappearing When It’s Time to Focus on You魔术师：当你集中注意力的时候就消失了。

　　Hiding Behind the Armor of Coping Modes躲在应对方式的盔甲后面心理学空间i^
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　　The Narcissist’s Strategy for Dealing with Unmet Needs处理未满足需求的自恋者的策略

　　Covert Narcissism隐性自恋

　　The Difference between Male and Female Narcissists 男性和女性的自恋者的区别心理学空间:r2`+x6l!kg``)sr

8e6yhRX0　　Healthy Narcissism健康的自恋

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2 Understanding the Anatomy of Personality: Schemas and the Brain理解人格的剖析：图式和大脑心理学空间3e.bLQNp

\z9ZXOt1wq!E0　　Cognitive Therapy认知疗法

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　　Foundations of Security: Biology and Attachment安全基础：生物学与依恋

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3 Getting Captured: Identifying Your Personal Traps被捕获：识别你的个人陷阱

L$Z)e9gcaY0　　Comfort Zones: The Challenges of Living with and Changing Your Habits舒适区：生活与改变习惯的挑战

　　Why the Narcissist Triggers You为什么自恋者触发了你心理学空间.O(U3Z"z8`_
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　　A Game of Collusion共谋游戏心理学空间*|+JJ_y9g

　　Hope Springs Eternal: The Capacity to Learn and Change希望永恒：学习和改变的能力

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4 Overcoming the Obstacles: Communication Pitfalls, Snags, and Glitches克服障碍：沟通的陷阱，障碍，和故障心理学空间"Lo^5r}r}0Z&Ai

　　Four Stages of Transformation转型的四个阶段心理学空间#xU{KWZ0O+j#qJ

　　Cues and Clues: Knowing Why You Get Triggered提示与线索：知道你为什么被触发心理学空间3{~yZ$l\
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L1z N;oJA(Vc;S0　　Beyond Fight, Flight, or Freeze超越战斗、逃跑或僵动

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5 Paying Attention: Facing Difficult Encounters with a Narcissist注意：面对与自恋狂的不同遭遇心理学空间}!p{foy

*B+UXaJ.Od)F0　　Breaking Free from Your Mechanical Habits摆脱你的机械习惯心理学空间;J8AG}+SO-eC

6k)`.~4YeC!T0　　The Power of Mindful Awareness正念意识的力量心理学空间l0XJ
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　　The Four Most Common Masks of the Narcissist and How to Deal with Them自恋者最常见的四种面具和如何处理它们

　　Conclusion结论

6 Making an Exit: Escaping Perilous Narcissism走出困境：逃离危险的自恋心理学空间 T`4xx N

　　Identifying Perilous Narcissism识别危险的自恋

　　Excuses, Excuses借口，借口

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4b`{_$|)xgc0　　Deciding Whether to Stay or Go决定是留下还是走

　　Reforming the Moderate Narcissist改革中的自恋者

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#ZR0w3]1v/r yx07 Using Empathic Confrontation: A Winning Strategy for Interpersonal Effectiveness使用共情对峙：人际效能的制胜策略

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　　Feeling “Felt”感受“感觉”心理学空间:z
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|hYd4L/]`J0　　A Brief Look at the Science of Empathy科学共情简论心理学空间%LLe?$f3q&s_O$p"T

　　Mirroring the Other镜映他者心理学空间0Y?"w-ep?*o

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8 Making the Most of a Difficult Situation: Seven Gifts of Communication with a Narcissist在最困难的局面：与自恋者沟通七个礼物心理学空间;m3wM/\ _

:Q4b~vxk$Bqi0　　Harnessing the Force利用力

　　Presenting Your Gifts呈现你的礼物

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