《依恋》by Susan Goldberg
作者: Susan Goldberg博士 / 32111次阅读 时间: 2011年6月14日
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依恋第五部分:在逆境中依恋
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我们在第四部分描述了婴儿和照顾因素促成的依恋关系。在此第五部分里,Goldberg博士讨论了在逆境条件下依恋的发展。心理学空间.n!?C { ~`
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.d'IM0pD0由于医疗或生物条件的原因,一些婴儿向照顾者寻求照顾的能力受到了限制。早产儿就是一个例子。与足月婴儿相比,早产儿的警觉和反应能力较差。像微笑、依附、伸手和跟随这些用来实现和保持与照顾者接触的行为的发展变得缓慢。与足月婴儿相比,早产儿住院时间更长,与看护者在一起的时间相对较少。心理学空间;Pm5b#tA+G8eG,_\t

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依恋学者对早产儿进行了研究,以了解这些挑战是否会对婴儿与照顾者的关系产生不利影响。他们发现,尽管足月前婴儿的存在一定的局限性,但大多数婴儿在12至18个月大时仍能安全依附。一般来说,如果没有其他不利因素,早产儿的照顾者能够补偿他们的孩子依恋沟通行为方面的困难。

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{9{G.{[ke,@k0照顾者能够弥补婴儿的缺陷,但对于大多数遭受到忽视或虐待的婴儿来说,情况并非如此。严重的虐待会危及婴儿的依恋安全。虐待(Maltreatment)不仅包括了虐待(abusive),也包括疏忽(neglectful)。

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遭受虐待并被归类为无组织的婴儿往往会保持这种状态,而被评为安全依恋的婴儿在整个发育过程中往往无法保持其安全状态。

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1im^%L$^5Y#Dg0研究社会逆境对依恋的影响存在一个困难,即,不同类型的逆境往往同时发生。例如,极端贫困往往与营养不良、医疗保健差和住房不足有关。这些情况反过来会对照顾者照顾儿童的能力产生不利影响。

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5.5 从早期剥夺或照顾不足中恢复

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我们知道某些条件会导致不安全的依恋。一旦婴儿暴露在不利环境中,可以采取任何措施确保他们发展出更安全的依恋吗?在考虑干预问题之前,先看看自然发生的“实验”案例,这些实验中涉及的婴儿,脱离了不利条件并置于更有利环境中。

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早期的人们认为,机构养育的婴儿会表现出异常的社会行为,无法建立亲密关系,并且往往会无差别的显示出友好行为。即使是接受了良好的身体照顾和充分的认知刺激的婴儿也会表现出这种不寻常的行为模式。心理学空间`2@o?__Lw$H

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最近的一些研究着眼于从极度剥夺的孤儿院环境中脱离出来的儿童的康复状况。总的来说,这些研究支持早期研究的发现。虽然领养的儿童在发展和行为方面取得了巨大的进步,但许多儿童发展出了有问题的依恋。

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不到一岁就在寄养家庭接受照顾的婴儿通常会与新的主要照顾者建立新的依恋关系,这取决于这些新的依恋形象(即,养父母家庭的照顾者)在他们情绪不安、身体受伤或生病时对他们的反应。心理学空间#Z'N#e D'TM}k

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但对于12个月大后接受照顾的婴儿来说,可能需要长达两个月的时间才能形成稳定的依恋关系。与早期就接受了照料的儿童相比,这些儿童发展出不安全依恋的情况更多。心理学空间6[.H;`k;NW

Is HmgcP0研究人员认为,受到不充分照顾的婴儿会发展出一些照顾者的行为有关的的模式,旨在保护他们免受虐待。这些行为虽然在出现时具有适应性,但会干扰正常和健康依恋行为的发展。因此,在虐待条件下长大的婴儿需要的,可能不仅仅是良好的照顾来建立安全的依恋关系。他们可能还需要治疗干预,他们的照顾者需要足够的支持和指导。心理学空间dS+YO,t8FN[ C

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这些收养和寄养调查结果提供了一些关于从逆境中恢复的潜力,以及严重和长期不利条件所施加的限制的见解。

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这些应对策略会干扰积极关系的发展。遭受虐待的儿童往往必须接受教育,使他们能够接受新的、可能是积极的关系和经历。

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从本质上说,治疗干预必须帮助受虐儿童克服对人际关系的消极信念。对于经历过极端虐待或忽视的孩子来说,积极的新体验可能会引起焦虑,而不是安慰。受虐待儿童希望所有情况都能证实他们在与虐待照料者的关系中学到了什么。当面对一些与以上期望相反的情况时,即使是积极的,也可能导致不平衡,加剧焦虑。受虐儿童的治疗必须侧重于帮助他们相信——并非所有成年人都会拒绝或虐待他们。

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许多依恋驱动的治疗方法侧重于改善婴儿与照顾者的关系。这些疗法已成功应用于高危人群。

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UF8A T9~0大多数把干预的重点放在婴儿-照顾者关系的干预措施往往侧重于提高父母对婴儿线索和信号的敏感性。但研究表明,尽管照顾者的敏感性与不同的有组织依恋模式有关,但与无组织依恋无关。此外,无组织的依恋是严重精神病理学和情绪或行为问题最强的预测因子之一。心理学空间o5KK u [W7\R

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最近由Diane Benoit及其同事在儿童医院进行的一项试点研究探讨了一项简短的、重点关注照顾者培训干预的有效性。修改后的互动指南不仅旨在提高看护者的敏感性,还特别关那些和无组织依恋有关的照顾者的行为。干预措施包括对照顾者和孩子之间的互动进行录像,然后与训练有素的治疗师进行讨论和反馈。心理学空间2_ Ma}\

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4NP`xk0其他以依恋为基础的计划也提供了由于生物、医学或心理社会风险而有发育迟缓风险的婴儿的照料者。从一开始,汉密尔顿健康科学和麦克马斯特大学婴儿家长计划的艾莉森·尼科尔斯(Alison Niccols)就设计了一个为期8周的家长培训课程,旨在改善照顾者与孩子之间的互动,培养依恋安全感。初步研究表明,该计划成功地实现了改善婴儿照顾者关系的目标。心理学空间 r['o5J[a

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多年来,已经开发了许多基于依恋的干预措施,其中许多仍在开发中,越来越多的干预措施正在接受越来越严格的科学测试。未来有希望发展经验证的干预措施,以提高照顾者的敏感性,并降低发展不安全和/或无组织依恋的风险。图片

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在我们的第六部分也是这一系列的最后一部分中,我们将讨论 依恋理论的社会影响。
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Goldberg S. Attachment and Development. Hillsdale, NJ: The Analytic Press; 2000.
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Goldberg S, Muir R, Kerr J, eds. Attachment Theory. Hillsdale, NJ:The Analytic Press;1995.
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Infants depend on caregivers for their survival and well-being. Fortunately, infants are predisposed to solicit care from caregivers and caregivers are predisposed to provide such care. But sometimes an infant's care-seeking behaviours or a parent’s caregiving behaviours are impaired, overridden or suppressed. When this happens, the attachment relationship can suffer.

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Adversity comes in many forms and can originate in the infant, the caregiver or from circumstances outside of the relationship. Most often, adversity involves multiple interacting factors. 心理学空间X$M` Rk;Z:g$B'|{8I

Premature birth

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Some infants are limited in their capacity to solicit care from caregivers due to medical or biological conditions. Premature babies are one example. Pre-term infants are less alert and less responsive than full-term babies. A number of behaviours used to achieve and maintain contact with caregivers such as smiling, clinging, reaching and following are slow to develop. Premature infants are also more likely to spend extended time in hospital and have limited time with caregivers compared to full-term babies.

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Attachment researchers have studied premature infants to see whether these challenges adversely affect the infant-caregiver relationship. They have found that despite pre-term infants’ limitations, the majority are securely attached by 12 to 18 months of age. In general, if other adversities do not arise, caregivers of premature babies are able to compensate for their children’s difficulties in communicating attachment behaviours. 心理学空间*gd1ERU aL`

Infant maltreatment

;f4UT}i;]-?"V6h0Caregivers are able to compensate for infant limitations but the same cannot be said for most babies facing neglect or abuse. An infant's attachment security is seriously jeopardized by maltreatment. Maltreatment can be either abusive or neglectful. In cases of abuse, care is provided but is accompanied by excessive anger, harshness or hostility. Neglect involves a lack of normal and necessary care. The two forms of maltreatment often co-exist. 心理学空间+n.Tj'SJ

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The majority of infants who are maltreated are insecurely attached and many display disorganized attachment patterns. Recall from the first feature in this series that a disorganized attachment pattern involves either a lack of an organized behaviour pattern or existing strategies that repeatedly break down. When stressed, in the presence of their caregiver, infants in disorganized attachment relationships appear disoriented, displaying unusual behaviours such as approaching the caregiver with their head averted, trance-like freezing or strange postures. These behaviours have been interpreted as evidence of fear or confusion with respect to the caregiver. Disorganization is considered an extreme form of insecurity.

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Caregiver depression

E,h \l9n/q|5L0\/b0There are other circumstances which leave caregivers unable to provide adequate care for their infants. Maternal depression can interfere with normal caregiving by limiting a mother’s emotional availability. To the infant, a depressed caregiver is perceived as inaccessible and unresponsive. There is evidence that severe and chronic maternal depression increases the likelihood that an infant will develop insecure attachment with that depressed caregiver. 心理学空间!N8_*uujZ

Social disadvantage

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Recovery from early deprivation or inadequate care

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Orphanage care

h p!m+R,D;|H:r0Early accounts of institution-reared infants describe babies who display unusual social behaviours, are unable to form close relationships and are often indiscriminately friendly. Even infants who received excellent physical care and adequate cognitive stimulation display these kinds of unusual behaviour patterns. A number of more recent studies have looked at the recovery of adopted children taken from the extremely deprived conditions of orphanages. In general, these studies support the findings of earlier research. Although the adopted children made substantial developmental and behavioural gains, many developed problematic attachments. 心理学空间mZ*IfuFz"jB]fdM

Foster care

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Researchers have suggested that babies who receive inadequate care develop patterns of relating to caregivers that are designed to protect them from abuse. These behaviours, although adaptive at the time that they emerge, interfere with the development of normal and healthy attachment behaviours. For this reason, babies raised under conditions of maltreatment may require more than good care to establish secure attachments. They may need therapeutic intervention and their caregivers need adequate support and guidance.

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Help for victims of maltreatment

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Facilitating positive peer interaction is a major component of therapy with older children. Maltreated children are prone to repeat negative relationship patterns from their past. A goal of therapy is to encourage relationships that diverge from familiar negative patterns.

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Improving the infant-caregiver relationship

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A number of attachment-driven therapeutic approaches focus on improving the infant-caregiver relationship. Therapy has been used successfully with high-risk groups. Some caregivers and their offspring burdened by poverty, lack of education and other life stressors, have responded well to some interventions. Some caregivers show greater empathy and interaction with their infants, following these interventions and infants show less avoidance, resistance, and anger. 心理学空间;pSzbw qID

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Most interventions that focus on infant-caregiver relationships focus on improving parental sensitivity to baby's cues and signals. But research has shown that while caregiver sensitivity is associated with the different patterns of organized attachment, it is not associated with disorganized attachment. Further, disorganized attachment is one of the strongest predictors of serious psychopathology and emotional or behavioural problems.

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Preliminary findings with Modified Interaction Guidance are promising. Caregiver behaviours associated with disorganized attachment declined after participation in the intervention. A number of studies across Canada are testing the effectiveness of this approach with high-risk families, children with clinical problems, and children of adolescent mothers, and families involved with child protection services.

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Other attachment-based programs have been offered to caregivers of infants at risk of developmental delay due to biological, medical, or psychosocial risk. Right from the Start, an 8-week parenting training course developed by Alison Niccols of the Infant Parent Program at Hamilton Health Sciences and McMaster University, was designed to improve caregiver-child interaction to foster attachment security. Preliminary research suggests that the program is successful in achieving its goal of improving the infant-caregiver relationship. 心理学空间 d*i ZW/]!}

9h+Q{k-LZ [{%J!D0Numerous attachment-based interventions have been developed over the years, many are still under development, and a growing number are being tested with increasing scientific rigor. The future holds promise for the development of proven interventions to improve caregiver sensitivity and reduce the risk of developing insecure and/or disorganized attachment.

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