DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED
作者: Wendy Behary / 7175次阅读 时间: 2010年11月20日
来源: New Harbinger Publications 标签: NARCISSIST 图式治疗 自恋
DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED 作 者:Wendy Behary
出 版:New Harbinger Publications
书 号:1608827607
原 价:¥116.60元
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DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED
解除自恋:运用自我专注获得生存与发展
Book ID/图书代码:09700007B17539

页数: 156
定价: 14.95美元

English Summary/英文概要:

What can you do with the narcissistic people in your life? They’re frustrating (and maybe even intimidating) to deal with. But sometimes you genuinely care for one of them. And you might need to interact with others in social or professional settings. Sometimes it doesn’t won’t work to simply ignore them. You need to find a way of communicating effectively with narcissists, getting your point across and meeting your needs while sidestepping unproductive power struggles and senseless arguments.This book offers several strategies for dealing effectively with someone who is at the centre of his or her own universe. Readers will learn how to move past the narcissist’s defences with compassionate, empathetic communication. They’ll learn to understand the worldview and coping styles of narcissists and why it’s often sad and lonely to be a narcissist. By anticipating and avoiding certain hot-button issues, readers will discover ways to relate to narcissists without triggering aggression. By validating some common narcissistic concerns, readers will find out how to be heard in conversation with a narcissist.

About the Author/作者介绍:

Wendy Behary, LCSW, is founder and clinical director of the Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and a faculty member at the Cognitive Therapy Center and Schema Therapy Institute of New York. She is also a founding fellow of the Academy of Cognitive Therapy. She maintains a private practice, specializing in narcissism and couples therapy.

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目录

Praise for the first edition  对初版的赞美

Contents  内容

Foreword  序言

Preface  前言

Acknowledgments  致谢

Introduction  引言

  An Era of Narcissism   自恋的时代

  The Wisdom of Empathy   共情的智慧

  Indelible Imprints   不可磨灭的印记

  Pivotal Influences  关键的影响

  Shared Wisdom  共享智慧

1 Framing the Situation: Toward an Understanding of Narcissism 建构情境:对自恋的理解

  The Narcissist at a Glance 一目了然的自恋者

  What Is a Narcissist? 什么是自恋?

  Origins of Narcissism 自恋的起源

  The Magician: Disappearing When It’s Time to Focus on You魔术师:当你集中注意力的时候就消失了。

  Hiding Behind the Armor of Coping Modes躲在应对方式的盔甲后面

  The Narcissist’s Strategy for Dealing with Unmet Needs处理未满足需求的自恋者的策略

  Covert Narcissism隐性自恋

  The Difference between Male and Female Narcissists 男性和女性的自恋者的区别

  Healthy Narcissism健康的自恋

  Conclusion结论

2 Understanding the Anatomy of Personality: Schemas and the Brain理解人格的剖析:图式和大脑

  Cognitive Therapy认知疗法

  Schema Therapy图式疗法

  Foundations of Security: Biology and Attachment安全基础:生物学与依恋

  Connecting the Dots连接点

  Conclusion结论

3 Getting Captured: Identifying Your Personal Traps被捕获:识别你的个人陷阱

  Comfort Zones: The Challenges of Living with and Changing Your Habits舒适区:生活与改变习惯的挑战

  Why the Narcissist Triggers You为什么自恋者触发了你

  Developing an Authentic Voice发展真实的声音

  A Game of Collusion共谋游戏

  Hope Springs Eternal: The Capacity to Learn and Change希望永恒:学习和改变的能力

  Conclusion结论

4 Overcoming the Obstacles: Communication Pitfalls, Snags, and Glitches克服障碍:沟通的陷阱,障碍,和故障

  Four Stages of Transformation转型的四个阶段

  Cues and Clues: Knowing Why You Get Triggered提示与线索:知道你为什么被触发

  Making Sense of Our Senses: Messages from the Brain and Body感知我们的感官:来自大脑和身体的信息

  Charmed and Disarmed着迷与消解

  Beyond Fight, Flight, or Freeze超越战斗、逃跑或僵动

  Conclusion结论

5 Paying Attention: Facing Difficult Encounters with a Narcissist注意:面对与自恋狂的不同遭遇

  Breaking Free from Your Mechanical Habits摆脱你的机械习惯

  The Power of Mindful Awareness正念意识的力量

  The Importance of Practice实践的重要性

  How Mindfulness Helps You Interact with the Narcissist正念如何互动可以帮助你与自恋者

  The Rewards of Mindfulness正念的回报

  The Four Most Common Masks of the Narcissist and How to Deal with Them自恋者最常见的四种面具和如何处理它们

  Conclusion结论

6 Making an Exit: Escaping Perilous Narcissism走出困境:逃离危险的自恋

  Identifying Perilous Narcissism识别危险的自恋

  Excuses, Excuses借口,借口

  Drawing the Line画线

  Deciding Whether to Stay or Go决定是留下还是走

  Reforming the Moderate Narcissist改革中的自恋者

  Conclusion结论

7 Using Empathic Confrontation: A Winning Strategy for Interpersonal Effectiveness使用共情对峙:人际效能的制胜策略

  Distinguishing between Empathy and Compassion区分共情和悲悯

  Feeling “Felt”感受“感觉”

  A Brief Look at the Science of Empathy科学共情简论

  Mirroring the Other镜映他者

  Under His Skin体贴入微

  Keeping the Narcissist on the Hook勾住自恋者

  Creating Leverage for Change为改变创造杠杆

  The Role of Empathy in the Therapeutic Relationship共情在治疗关系中的作用

  Conclusion结论

8 Making the Most of a Difficult Situation: Seven Gifts of Communication with a Narcissist在最困难的局面:与自恋者沟通七个礼物

  Harnessing the Force利用力

  Presenting Your Gifts呈现你的礼物

  The Seven Gifts七件礼物

Conclusion结论

Resources资源

  Organizations组织

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