DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED
作者: Wendy Behary / 13136次阅读 时间: 2010年11月20日
来源: New Harbinger Publications 标签: NARCISSIST 图式治疗 自恋
DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED 作 者:Wendy Behary
出 版:New Harbinger Publications
书 号:1608827607
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a0o!x$^ f$_`0What can you do with the narcissistic people in your life? They’re frustrating (and maybe even intimidating) to deal with. But sometimes you genuinely care for one of them. And you might need to interact with others in social or professional settings. Sometimes it doesn’t won’t work to simply ignore them. You need to find a way of communicating effectively with narcissists, getting your point across and meeting your needs while sidestepping unproductive power struggles and senseless arguments.This book offers several strategies for dealing effectively with someone who is at the centre of his or her own universe. Readers will learn how to move past the narcissist’s defences with compassionate, empathetic communication. They’ll learn to understand the worldview and coping styles of narcissists and why it’s often sad and lonely to be a narcissist. By anticipating and avoiding certain hot-button issues, readers will discover ways to relate to narcissists without triggering aggression. By validating some common narcissistic concerns, readers will find out how to be heard in conversation with a narcissist.
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Wendy Behary, LCSW, is founder and clinical director of the Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and a faculty member at the Cognitive Therapy Center and Schema Therapy Institute of New York. She is also a founding fellow of the Academy of Cognitive Therapy. She maintains a private practice, specializing in narcissism and couples therapy.心理学空间 d~"m0N9J(p$t
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gt4y&[v0Contents  内容

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Acknowledgments  致谢

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Introduction  引言

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  An Era of Narcissism   自恋的时代

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  Indelible Imprints   不可磨灭的印记

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  The Narcissist at a Glance 一目了然的自恋者

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  Hiding Behind the Armor of Coping Modes躲在应对方式的盔甲后面

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  Covert Narcissism隐性自恋

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2 Understanding the Anatomy of Personality: Schemas and the Brain理解人格的剖析:图式和大脑

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  Cognitive Therapy认知疗法

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  Foundations of Security: Biology and Attachment安全基础:生物学与依恋心理学空间$|j6vl G~y`

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3 Getting Captured: Identifying Your Personal Traps被捕获:识别你的个人陷阱

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  Comfort Zones: The Challenges of Living with and Changing Your Habits舒适区:生活与改变习惯的挑战

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  Four Stages of Transformation转型的四个阶段

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5 Paying Attention: Facing Difficult Encounters with a Narcissist注意:面对与自恋狂的不同遭遇

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  Identifying Perilous Narcissism识别危险的自恋

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  Reforming the Moderate Narcissist改革中的自恋者

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8 Making the Most of a Difficult Situation: Seven Gifts of Communication with a Narcissist在最困难的局面:与自恋者沟通七个礼物

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