Researchers asked these British mothers which personality traits they would most wish for their babies – extraversion came out on top.
Ambitious and self-disciplined or affable and fun-loving? If you could choose the personality profile for your children, what would you prioritise? Researchers at Goldsmiths, University of London, put this question to 142 British mothers with a baby aged 0 to 12 months. Reporting their findings in Personality and Individual Differences, Rachel Latham and Sophie von Stumm say there was a clear preference among the mothers for most of all wanting their infants to grow up to be extraverted, especially friendly and cheerful, more so than conscientious or intelligent, even though these latter attributes are more likely to contribute to a healthy, successful life. To the researchers’ knowledge this is the first time mothers’ wishes for their children’s personalities has been studied.
雄心勃勃、自律、友善和有趣？如果您可以为您的孩子选择人格画像，那么您会优先考虑什么？伦敦大学金史密斯研究人员向142名有着一名0至12个月婴儿的英国母亲询问了这个问题。Rachel Latham和Sophie von Stumm在《人格与个体差异》杂志报告他们的发现，绝大多数的母亲中都希望她们的婴儿长大后更具外倾性，尤其是友好和开朗，这些比责任心或聪明的期望更多，即使责任心或聪明更有可能有助于健康和成功的生活。据研究人员所知，这是首次对母亲对她们孩子人格之愿望进行的研究。
Latham and von Stumm told the mothers (average age 33) the six personality facets that make up each of the Big Five personality traits (Extraversion, Conscientiousness, Neuroticism, Agreeableness, Openness to Experience). For each trait, the mothers were asked to say which facet they would most like their child to have. See the results below, showing how often each facet was chosen as the most preferred for each trait:
After this, the mothers were asked to place their chosen five facets (one from each trait) in order of most to least important for their child to have, and to also place intelligence in its appropriate place in this list.
More than half the mothers chose a facet of Extraversion as the most important overall, followed by 20 per cent choosing a facet of Agreeableness, such as being moral or trustworthy, as most important. An Openness facet was chosen as most important by just under 10 per cent of mothers, with intelligence or a facet of Conscientiousness, such as achievement-striving, not far behind at 9 to 10 per cent. Mothers’ choices didn’t vary with the sex of their child.
Latham and von Stumm point out that the high priority that mothers placed on Extraversion and the relatively low priority given to Conscientiousness and Intelligence contrasts sharply with the research literature on which traits are most important to positive and negative life outcomes. For instance, people who are more intelligent and Conscientious tend to live longer, healthier lives and do better in their careers and relationships. By contrast, although Extraversion correlates with being happier, it is also associated with negative outcomes such as drink and drug problems.
Unfortunately, the research doesn’t speak to why mothers prioritised the traits that they did. “It is possible that mothers’ preference for extraversion is the result of a cohort effect, whereby the current zeitgeist, rather than the mothers themselves, values and encourages extraversion,” Latham and von Stumm speculated.
不幸的是，这项研究并没有说明妈妈优先考虑她们所选特质的原因。Latham和von Stumm推测：“母亲偏爱外倾性有可能是时代效应（cohort effect）的结果，即，由当今的时代精神重视和鼓励外向性所决定，而不是母亲本身决定的”